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Is Singapore in China? Does the LGBTQ exist in Singapore? Listen to two lesbians in the city-state - nightlife veteran and co-founder of No Sleep Club, Jess "Hutch", and food writer and jill of many trades, Yawen - talk about anything and everything under the sun (in Singlish, of course).
Episodes
41 episodes
MMM S4E10 - The orgasm gap
This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. On the last episode of the season, we talk about the one and only, inevitable (or not), mystical climax—orgasm. Is it really THAT important when it ...
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Season 4
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Episode 10
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32:40
MMM S4E9 - A dabble into kinks and fetishes
This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. With the alternative becoming mainstream these days, we take a dive into fetishes and kinks out there. As self-proclaimed 'vanilla' and kink-curious...
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Season 4
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Episode 9
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34:05
MMM S4E8 - Are sex toys necessary?
This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. Straps-ons and dildos are they really necessary to a good sex life? We give some strong (and lazy) opinions on the matter. One thing's for sure, sex...
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Season 4
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Episode 8
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38:45
MMM S4E7 - Exploring types of sexual encounters
This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. From one night stands to threesomes, what's the deal about them? We explore the horizons of our sexual openness and ask the real important question ...
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Season 4
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Episode 7
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40:22
MMM S4E6 - What's sex education in Singapore like? with guest Jean Seizure
We all learn about sex in our early formative years and the school curriculum proves to be the perfect place for misconceptions and fear mongering, at least of what we remember from it anyway. This episode, we get singer-songwriter and actress/...
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Season 4
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Episode 6
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45:31
MMM S4E5 - What does sexual health look like for lesbians?
This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. Does sexual health matter to lesbians? We share our first experiences with sexual health tests and clinics, and other sex-related ailments. For quee...
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Season 4
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Episode 5
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34:06
MMM S4E4 - Spilling the tea about female masturbation
This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. Masturbation gets the hot seat this episode (to the horror of our religious teachers and parents). We explore the many ways and tools that get us in...
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Season 4
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Episode 4
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36:30
MMM S4E3 - Foreplay: the longer, the better
This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. Don't we just love a good build up? On this episode, we talk about one of the most important parts of sex — foreplay. From an intellectual discussio...
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Season 4
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Episode 3
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35:35
MMM S4E2 - How do we give and take back consent?
This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. The buzzword of the last few years, CONSENT, is somewhat of a newish concept to us, older millennials. We talk about our own experiences with giving...
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Season 4
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Episode 2
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31:39
MMM S4E1 - What's the difference between gender and sexuality?
We're back!! Missed us? This season we do a deep dive into the topic of SEX and all things queer about it. It's an understatement to say that sex education is desperately lacking in Singapore . While we're not experts, we're hoping...
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Season 4
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Episode 1
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19:34
MMM S3 Episode 10 - Wait, 2023 is over?
Our last episode for 2023 starts on a relative harmless note with beige flags (what are they? and why are they beige??) and turns into a reflection for us both. It's safe to say that we're (still) struggling with social media and the big WWW. W...
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Season 3
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Episode 10
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47:21
MMM S3 Episode 9 - What makes sportswomen so damn attractive?
Did the Womens World Cup 2023 increase visibility to the world wide web of lesbians in sports? What sports did we use to excel in, do we still excel in any? And we ask the hardest question, what sport has the most lesbians? Would we date sporty...
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Season 3
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Episode 9
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44:23
MMM S3 Episode 8 - Why do lesbians love getting into long distance relationships?
What is LDR? Why do lesbians love getting into them? We chat about our experiences, the pros, the cons, whether we recommend them and what to do when you're apart from each other. Does an open relationship help along the way? Have you been in a...
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Season 3
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Episode 7
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35:38
MMM S3 Episode 7 - Why do queer women love to U-Haul so much?
What does the term 'U-Haul' mean in the WLW dictionary? We give acknowledgement to the lightning fast speed at which sapphics move in with each other, and breakdown the pros and cons of nesting. Does teamwork actually make the dream work? ...
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Season 3
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Episode 7
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37:07
MMM S3 Episode 6 - What is lesbian bed death?
The dreaded LBD (lesbian bed death) is more common than most of us realise, and no, it's not just an urban myth. Is it a symptom of something larger in the relationship or just two people get too comfortable and lazy with each other? We talk ab...
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Season 3
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Episode 6
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34:10
MMM S3 Episode 5 - Why do some lesbians like straight women?
We explore the phenomenon of lesbians dating straight women being, of course, two women who don't do that. (Don't @ us!) Still, lots of our lesbian friends make the annual conversion pilgrimage every time. Listen to us break down the allure of ...
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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41:13
MMM S3 Episode 4 - Queer Ultimatum: Debrief
Happy Pride Month and happy Pink Dot Day!!! For those who don't reside in Singapore, Pink Dot is our country's equivalent of pride 'march' where queers and allies squeeze in Hong Lim Park for a day. Listen to our season 1 bonus episode a sample...
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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41:24
MMM S3 Episode 3 - Situationships, get me outta here!
Are relationships ever straightforward? We dive into the trendy term 'situationships' and break that down (perhaps not so successfully). We spill the tea on some of the less clear cut and toxic relationships we've been in, and offer a solution ...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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38:44
MMM S3 Episode 2 - How do you ask a girl out?
From the vast (and sometimes tiny) pool of queer women, asking someone out can be daunting. We share how we've gotten our lady interests to meet us IRL and along the way discover that maybe we suck at it.
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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37:09
MMM S3 Episode 1 - Does your first lesbian sex have to feel magical? (NSFW)
We're back for a third season and this time letting loose (look Ma, no script!). Each episode will see us answer a question and listen to us digress, a particular talent of ours, from there. For episode one, we get on one of our favourite topic...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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29:59
MMM S2 Episode 10 - It's just us for the recap
It's the end of season two! We go back to the basics with us two chattering on about what the season has been like. We do plenty of veering off the track now that we're back off-script but don't worry, we still get back to the topics at hand. (...
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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53:38
MMM S2 Episode 9 - Being trans with Shan Menon
For our second last episode for season two, we learn more about the trans community in Singapore as we chat with Shan Menon. A trained psychologist himself, he shares his experience as a social worker for The T Project and a youth educator. Thi...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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1:15:04
MMM S2 Episode 8 - Queer & Muslim w Zuby from Healing Circle
What is it like being queer and a Muslim? We chat with Zuby, founder of the Healing Circle, an organisation in Singapore for queer Muslims that offers counselling and theoretical studies on the Quran. She candidly shares her coming out story (a...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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40:35
MMM S2 Episode 7 - Drag w Becca D'Bus
We love a good drag show and on this episode, we speak to the one and only queen — Becca D'Bus. The founder and organiser of the weekly drag performance, RIOT!, schools us on how drag is a glorious celebration of rule-breaking and finding...
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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1:26:56
MMM S2 Episode 6 - Activism for queer women w Jean Chong of Sayoni
Singapore isn't as queer-friendly as you think it is. We speak to Jean Chong, one of the founders of Sayoni, a local organisation that focuses on research about LBQ (lesbian, bisexual, and queer) women in the country. It's a soberi...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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1:08:12